You may see a child

November 5, 2015 in Parenting

You may see a smile.  I see the worry and sadness beneath the smile.

You may see a child who has lots of friends.  I see a child standing on the edge of a group but not really fitting in.

You may see confidence and swagger, I see insecurity and self-loathing.

You may see a good piece of work.  I see the hours of deliberation and unnecessary preparation.

You see a simple piece of homework.  I see a struggle ahead.

You may see a child who has slept well.  I see the child who can’t sleep due to worry and stress.

You may see a child who is ok at sport. I see a child who needs sport to try and fit in and feel part of something.

You may see a child who is calm and collected.  I see a child with an uncontrollable temper.

You see a child who shows off with his friends.  I see a child desperate to fit in.

You may see one side of a child.  I see the many sides.

You may see a child.  I see a child with the weight of the world on his small shoulders.

You may see the child, I see what really lies beneath.

Things may not always be what they seem.

looking out

 

Nikki Thomas

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  • Kate Takes 5 November 5, 2015 at 11:00 am

    Oh bless. What a beautifully written post. Hope your little man is ok.
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  • Sarah MumofThree World November 6, 2015 at 8:52 am

    This is beautiful and so sad. I hope your boy is OK.
    I can relate to this to a lesser extent – nobody else sees my son so tired he can’t move, they just see the big smile and the boundless energy. Nobody sees my daughter crying in terror because she can’t get to sleep, they just see the cool, calm, collected and studious girl.

  • Morgan Prince November 7, 2015 at 9:42 am

    Oh hun I hope your boy is okay. It’s funny what we notice as mothers isn’t it? I hope your boy isn’t too stressed. Sending hugs. xx
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  • Becky November 9, 2015 at 10:17 am

    oh this made me sad but thank goodness you do see
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  • Sonya Cisco November 9, 2015 at 10:25 am

    Beautifully written post, but hope your boy is ok, and you xxx
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  • Notmyyearoff November 10, 2015 at 1:17 am

    Written very eloquently. Hope your boy is ok xx

  • Pinkoddy November 18, 2015 at 6:53 am

    I hope you are ok. You will help him get there xx
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  • Natalie Ray January 29, 2016 at 9:34 pm

    A lovely post and something we can all relate to with our own children to a greater or lesser degree I’m sure. I hope all is well with you, I can see this was written a little while ago now, I hope things are improving for you all.xx

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